Let No-one say “I Am Done.”

Whenever i hear or read that someone has committed suicide, it scatters my belief of humanity. People always condemn & blame the victim for committing this unlawful & such inhumane act of self-annihilation but how can they forget to blame themselves for not becoming human by their own actions.
We, people are so busy in our own day to day life that we don’t even try to see how depressed & unhappy our loved one’s/friends/relatives are!

We pretend to show that we are with them always in every situation but how much actually we are!! Don’t be available on whatsapp merely rather be available to them in reality by asking them how are they, talk to them without in need, show them that you care, and make them feel assured that they will not be judged or feel ashamed for sharing their thoughts.

Show Respect & Value to the people you are surrounded with unless they become just memories to you. Be Kind & love unconditionally. We are human & so we are blessed to have this ability to express but unfortunately these days Human are lacking in Humanism. I found animals far better than of (we) human as animals never compel any of their member to commit suicide!! Be alive and let everyone be alive inside out.
Let no one suffer alone.

If anyone around you is suffering from any sort of depression, anxiety or problem. Reach out to help, listen them with compassion & acceptance, don’t let a bad experience stop them to live.
Make them realize their own worth by appreciating & encouraging.
Be in touch until they turn their lives off.🙏
Let no one say around you that “I am done”, I am done of my feelings…. I am done of my relationship….i am done of my Work….OR
I am done of my LIFE…!!

Be Human!🙏

Grown Parents

From spoiling to scolding us

They have grown up

Doing uncountable things for us to making us realize our own responsibilities

They have grown up

From never leaving us alone to allowing us to live alone

They have grown up

From being dependent on us to doing their stuffs alone

They have grown up

From boasting their problems to not letting us know about their pain

They have grown up

This growth is somewhere harrowing unlike ours.

Although what hasn’t changed yet to won’t be changed forever is loving us crazily to loving us unconditionally.❤

Regards

Love & Respect Parents🙏

अदनि सी “मैं”

मैं अदनि सी, नादान सी

थोड़ी बेबाक तो थोडी अनजान सी

मैं वो फूल हूँ काँटों वाला, जो हर किसी का अरमान नही

जो खिल जाऊ तो रूह महका दू,

तेरी बगिया को गुलशन बना दू,

पर मेरा खिलना यहा मंजूर किसे है

रोज आते है मुझे तोड़ने वाले

मुझे मेरी ही खुशियों की कसमे देने वाले

और फिर अपनी नाकाम कोशिशो को

मुझपर ही थोपने वाले,

इन्हें मेरा ये ग़ुरूर गवारा कब है।

मैं अदनि सी, नादाँ सी, थोड़ी बेबाक तो थोड़ी अनजान सी|

जब थोड़ी बड़ी हुई तो लोगो ने समझाया

खेलना कूदना इसका काम नही।

इसे है बस घर मैं रहना, बाहर निकलना आसान नही

इतना निडर बनके क्या करेगी !

जब तेरे रखवाली के लिए हम मर्द है साथ।

लाझ, शरम और घर के काम

अपनों के लिए जीना और मरना

खुद को कभी आगे मत करना

इन्ही सब से है बेटी तेरी शान

पर मुझे कहा था ये सब समझ आता

क्यूकि थी मैं थोड़ी शैतान सी

मैं अदनि सी नादान सी, थोड़ी बेबाक तो थोड़ी अनजान सी|

जो दुनिया कहे वो मुझे कभी नही था करना

मुझे तो अपनी एक नई राह पर था चलना

खुशियां महकाती,

जीने के नए तरीके ढूंढ लाती

स्वाभिमान से चलती

कभी नन्हे बच्चे सी खिलखिलाती,

तो किसी को सपने देखना सिखलाती,

किसी के चेहरे पे परेशानी की शिकन तक ना आती

जो मुझसे मिलता उसे वो हौसला दे जाती।

एक लाइन में बयां करू तो जनाब ….

इन्सानियत को रूहानियत से मिलवाती।

मैं अदनि सी नादान सी, थोड़ी बेबाक तो थोड़ी अनजान सी||👧

A Note to Self💖

Sometimes A child can make you realize the actual worth of Present.💖 We, Grown up people are so busy in worrying about future & regretting for the past that we forget to enjoy our present.

Yesterday was a day which has added one more awful experience in my life..As someone thieved my purse while i was traveling in train.

Luckily it wasn’t a big loss to me as i don’t carry much cash with me though i had lost my favorite purse & my favourite watch in that,Whole night i was crying & thinking what could be the worst than this!!

I was regretting for my decision of coming today and of choosing train or not paying proper attention towards it’s safty and many more things which could have been saved me from being a victim of their trick!

Well !! I can’t brought back the gone time & those precious things of mine. Losing something or someone is always painful,

but after that consoling yourself without reproaching self is needed the most.

Eventually I have realized the value of time without reproaching self, loving & enjoying what we still have in our hands. Things will be bought again but Time once lost can not be regained !!

Stop Criticizing yourself because somethings are not in our hands. Learn from children how they enjoy and fits themselves in every situation of life.

Let go the past but remember it’s lessons.

Keep Loving Yourself.❤

As I Began To Love Myself

Sharing this beautiful poem by one of the most admired persons, Charlie Chaplin.

“AS I BEGAN TO LOVE MYSELF”

As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering

are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.

Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody

As I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time

was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this

person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT”.

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life,

and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow.

Today I call it “MATURITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance,

I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens

at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm.

Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”.

As I began to love myself I quit steeling my own time,

and I stopped designing huge projects for the future.

Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do

and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in

my own rhythm. Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”.

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for

my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew

me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude

a healthy egoism. Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since

I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”.

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worry

about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING

is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”.

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me

and it can make me sick. But As I connected it to my heart, my

mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this

connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART”.

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems

with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing

new worlds are born.Today I know THAT IS “LIFE”!

Love Yourself❤

Hope you’re all doing well.

Love and Peace 😊

About Me

Hello
This is Teena, I believe that Life is full of learnings, but it depends on us what we want to learn from it; positive lessons or negative lessons.
Every Positive lesson can empower our soul & make it more wise.
I want to share such thoughts & experiences of mine, which boost me up.
Hoping that you too will feel motivated & connected.

An Ordinary Girl

Yes, She is an ordinary girl, ordinary because she has no extra ordinary goals to be achieved, but the only goal of her life is to be recognized as the way she is.

Though she has not gained any fame yet, but those full of warmth blessings,love,care & respect she has earned from her selective acquaintances, make her feel special.

Yes,she is an ordinary girl,bcz she is not the most Beautiful girl, and she doesn’t want to be.

She is a girl who loves to look the way she has been created.

She is not the perfect one but she is happy in her imperfections, learning from her ordinariness .Making mistakes & learning from that.

She is an ordinary girl thus she doesn’t deserve to marry a perfect guy but she definitely deserves to get a genuine guy who loves her and can make her believe in her own hidden extra-ordinary qualities.

Her ordinariness always reminds her that she doesn’t belong to this hypothetical society, but she has immense power to build her own world of wisdom; where she can inspire everyone that how to rule on this ordinariness as well as can live a substantive life.

Hence, She is a girl to be proud of, a girl to be respected & admired. And YES, all she deserves just because she is “an ordinary girl”.❤